How To Approach Two Girls At Once And Get Both Phone Numbers

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How To Approach Two Girls And Get Both Phone Numbers

I was out doing The Daily 30 (part of The Revolution!) the other day when I saw two pretty girls eating ice cream, talking to each other.

We get guys sometimes asking how to approach two girls who are together.

Some dating advice will talk about “befriending the friend.” Others talk about ignoring the girl you’re interested in. Others, still, talk about bringing in a “wing” to take care of the “obstacle.”

We’ve thrown all that out the window in favor of something that saves more time and gets better results for us.

When you are approaching using the process of Identification, as we teach in Meet More Women, you can approach women almost irregardless of the situation. Simply be straightforward, while making the girls laugh, and seeking to Identify if she is into you. Sometimes both girls will like you. Sometimes one will and one won’t. Sometimes both won’t. You just gotta go approach and find out.

How do you approach two girls at once?

The answer is quite simple, really: The same way you would if she were alone. Make her laugh and be straightforward.

Me: “Hi.”

Them: “Hi.”

Me: “What are you two up to today?”

Then we proceeded to have a fun conversation, with laughing and jokes.

The two girls were going to school to be hair stylists. They were both 19. Pretty.

I chatted with them for about 6-7 minutes (one of them gave me a bite of her ice cream). Then I asked for their numbers.

Yes, both of their numbers.

How?

No, I didn’t tell them I wanted to invite them to a party.

I didn’t tell them I wanted to text them something.

I didn’t make any excuses for why I wanted their numbers.

I was straight up about it.

“I want to invite each of you out for coffee. Separately. What are your phone numbers?”

They hesitated. Looked at each other, wondering what to do.

“If you don’t want to, it’s cool too. So, what are your phone numbers?”

After sitting on the fence for a few seconds, the first girl smiled and gave me her number.

When she was finished, I turned to the friend. “How about you?” Then she gave me her number.

I wished them both a nice day and then went on with my business.

How To Approach Two Girls And Get Both Phone Numbers

Here’s something important to remember: Your ability to get the phone number from a girl, or two girls at once, or even a whole dance squad at the same time is mostly dependent on whether the girls like you from the start or not. Your job is simply to approach them, seeking to find out if you share chemistry with the girls.

Will phone numbers always lead to dates? No. But there will be lots of situations where phone numbers turn into dates, and even multi-year flings or relationships when you might have originally thought it wouldn’t go anywhere (usually, guys simply miss the obvious signs that the girl was into him from the start). Until you get a lot more experience, and become a lot more psychic, it’s fairly difficult to predict the future. So you might as well go ahead and approach the women you find attractive. If she’s open to talking to you then engage in light, playful conversation and ask for the number so you can invite her out for coffee (and move on as quickly as you can when you find out she’s not interested.)

Approaching two girls at the same time is pretty much the exact same process as approaching a girl who is by herself (all out it detailed in Meet More Women).

Be Amazing,
Jack D. Serrano